There was a shooting on my block this week. A drive-by shooting. Three young adults were shot. A nineteen-year-old young man died of a gunshot wound to the head, an eighteen-year-old young woman was shot in the leg and another woman of the same age received a graze wound.
It is suspected that this shooting was related to a conflict between two gangs in my neighborhood. The victims, however, had no gang affiliation; two were not from this area but were visiting the third. One of them was a student at the community college at which my son teaches. Two had been spending the afternoon doing homework at a Starbucks.
There have been other shootings on this block and in this neighborhood. And my immediate feelings, in each case, are the same: grief and helplessness. I find myself praying for the victims and their families and the perpetrator; for the young couple across the street with the small child; for my neighbors, my neighborhood, and society.
I feel the senselessness of the act. I blurted out to my wife, “What is the point?” Of course, there is no point, no purpose to evil, no reason not to love. And there is always a reason to love. There is always a purpose to love. The unconditional love of God “poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit” gives us life and purpose and binds us together. Without love, our lives fall apart.
But “not loving” takes many forms. It is not only the act of a lost, confused youth with a gun. Not loving shows itself in:
Not listening to the cries and hurts of others.
Not turning from our prejudices, fears, and resentments to truly see the other.
Not turning from our inordinate focus on our comfort and pleasure.
Not doing justice and being merciful.
Not working for change in ourselves and our society.
Not being salt, light, and yeast in our society.
I ask myself what I am called to do. One thing, of which I am clear, is that if I work for justice, I will be addressing the issue of violence. It does not matter the focus of the justice work, for justice is simply making right what is wrong. There are numerous ways to do justice: Work for fairness in education—public schools in poor neighborhoods having the same level of resources as those in rich neighborhoods. Work for criminal justice reform, voter reform, economic justice. Address the easy flow of guns into the hands of lost youth. Reach out to these youth. All these actions address the issue of violence.
Christians, in particular, are to proclaim God’s governance, in which the first are last and the last first, and those who exalt themselves are humbled and the humble exalted. We are to call others back to God, the Source of life and love. We are to turn to the Source for ourselves.
Not loving takes many forms. Taking no action in the face of hurt and need is not loving. A phrase, in a confession of sins, used in many churches is: “I confess that I have sinned by what I have done and by what I have left undone.” It is what we do not do that most manifests our not loving. Love acts! Love acts for the sake of victim and perpetrator. Love acts to bring about change in our society toward support of families, support that encourages, educates, and provides just incomes. Love acts for the healing of mental and emotional illnesses and the uplift of the “least” among us. Love does not ignore the wounded but treats the wounds and addresses that which inflicts the wounds.